Calm chat for people you can't cut off.

Some people stay in your life whether you like it or not: an ex, a family member, a landlord. CalmTalk turns down the hostility in what they send you, so you can read what matters without taking every hit.

Coming to Android Ask about early access

Hurtful messages softened. Originals always kept.

CalmTalk conversation where a hurtful message is shown softened

What CalmTalk does

Kindness filter on incoming messages

Insults and name-calling are softened before you read them. The facts stay: times, places, plans. You choose how strong the filter is.

Originals are always kept

Nothing is lost. Tap any softened message to see exactly what was sent, unchanged. Possible threats are never softened; you see a clear safety warning instead.

Records as a PDF

Export organized records of your conversation, with the original messages and timestamps, that you can share with your lawyer.

Private texting number

They don't need the app. You get a private number they can text like any other. Their messages are softened for you, and the originals are kept.

Shared calendar

Keep schedules, handoffs and change requests in one place, with a history of every change, so there's less to argue about.

The original message, kept unchanged
An organized PDF of conversation records
Texting someone who doesn't use the app from a private number

Android app

CalmTalk is in testing on Android now and will be on Google Play soon. Want to try it early? Email support@calmtalk.app.

CalmTalk is not a law firm, crisis line or emergency service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services.